A sign

Feeling drained from the heat today, I decided that what I really wanted for lunch was a small Chick-fil-a milkshake. Yes, it's high in calories, fat, and all that other yummy stuff, but it was going to be my meal, so that assuaged some of the guilt. Well, when I got to the counter, I had a last-minute change of heart and ordered a "traditional" lunch of nuggets in fries. But when I got my lunch, I realized it wasn't really what I wanted, and I barely ate any of it.

But...

When I went to pick up my car from the repair shop this afternoon, one of the mechanics asked if I liked Chick-fil-a. Then he handed me...wait for it, wait for it...a coupon for a free small milkshake!! I told Darryl it was like the milkshake gods WANTED me to have a milkshake. I happily took my coupon and cashed it in. And that milkshake was delicious.

Of course, it could have been a test of tempation.

If that was the case, I failed.

A girls' weekend in Florida

That title sounds much wilder than what it really was.

Friday, Amelia and loaded up our rented Kia Rondo (long story there) and headed to Florida to see my parents and visit with Darryl's family.

On the way down there, Amelia was PERFECT. No tears, no whines, no meltdowns. She looked at books, bopped her head along to the music, talked on her play cellphone, ate snacks, and took her shoes off and on. And she napped only 45 minutes of that 6-hour trip. We even stopped at a McAlister's Deli for lunch so we could have a break from the car, and she was even good in the restaurant!

Over the weekend, we were able to visit with family, go to a farmers' market to get some watermelons, and chase Amelia around. Seriously, the girl doesn't stop.

One of the highlights of the weekend was taking Amelia to the beach. She absolutely loved it. Here are a few of my favorite pics:
The above pic makes me laugh because Amelia loves to do this thing--in the bath or apparently at the beach, too--where she "stirs" in a container and then tastes what she is stirring. I'm not too sure what she thought about the salt water and sand mixture.


You see those seagulls? Once they discovered we had Goldfish crackers, these birds were a captive audience. They were starting to creep me out a bit. Even when we left our post to swim, they were watching us, waiting for our return. A bit Alfred Hitchcock-ish, don't you think?

Anyway. Amelia and I made our trip home yesterday. While she wasn't quite as angelic as she was Friday, she was still pretty good, considering that she's confined by a 5-point harness in a carseat that doesn't offer a whole lot of cushioning.

We had a great time!

Reasons Why I Love Sesame Street

The only TV show Amelia has shown any interest in is Sesame Street. Now, I'm not a big fan of letting the TV babysit kids, but sometimes Momma needs to take a shower. Or cook dinner. Or just sit down. In those moments, Sesame Street comes to my rescue.

Amelia's obsession began about six months ago when, on a whim, I bought the DVD Sesame Street's 25th Musical Celebration. She loved it. Then I started TiVo-ing the "real" episodes on TV. Now she comes to me with remote in hand and says, in her pitiful voice, "Elbow [Elmo]."

And let me tell you, I think Sesame Street is a great show. It's educational. It's entertaining. Here are a few reasons why I love Sesame Street:

1. I watched it when I was little, and now I find it comforting to see the same people on the show: Gordon, Luis, Maria...they're there. And they look good!!

2. I like how the show repeats letters and numbers. Heck, if Amelia is going to watch something, at least she is getting exposed to some useful things. They still do this, too: "Today's show was brought to you by the letter _____ and the number ____." Love that.

3. They get some pretty impressive celebrity guests who are often hilarious in their roles. Neil Patrick Harris shows up as a "shoe fairy." (Y'all, he might have come out of the closet, but I've had a thing for him since he was Doogie.) Brian Williams is too, too funny as a newscaster reporting how everyone on Sesame Street has a case of the "mine-itus" and won't share. Kristin Chenoweth (love her!) plays Mr. Noodle's sister in the segment "Elmo's World." Ben Stiller, Sarah Jessica Parker, and Kim Catrall (that last one surprised me) have shown up on the show. And Michelle Obama is currently doing a little bit before or after the show where she talks about fitness.

4. I like how the show includes kids who have disabilities. I don't know if I'm being PC in discussing this, but every episode includes these kids, often in scenarios where they are playing with kids who don't have these obstacles. I feel I should say something more profound about that, but I just think it is cool.

5. Many of the songs are the same songs I loved growing up. And I don't know why it is, but a lot of the slower songs have melodies that make me want to cry. When Burt sings "Imagination" or Ernie sings "I Don't Want to Live on the Moon," I seriously feel like I could boo hoo. Why is that??

So that's my little Sesame Street tribute. For the record, I hope Amelia never discovers Barney. He drives me nuts. I haven't really tried The Wiggles. Any thoughts on them?

For now, though, I give Sesame Street a mom's thumbs up! For your viewing pleasure, I leave you with NPH as the Shoe Fairy. Enjoy!

Father's Day Weekend and Waterslides

Y'all, I love water slides. I don't care that I'm 35 years old. I'm excited that having a child now gives me permission to ride waterslides again like I'm twelve years old. Let me clarify...Amelia hasn't been down any waterslides and isn't going down any in the near future, but in a few years, she will.

We spent some time at the pool where we have a gym membership, and there's a cool waterslide at the pool. It's not a big one, like ones you fine at "real" waterparks, but it's enough to whet my appetite. I was hesitant to ride it because I thought it might just be for the kids, but once I saw a few adults go down it, off I went. I loved it.

And goodness, Amelia loves the pool. (For my mother...Darryl was watching her when I took a break to ride the waterslide.) My parents say that when I was little and we took family vacations anywhere, all I was interested in was the hotel pool. Forget sightseeing--I just wanted to swim. I think Amelia might be the same way. The only not fun part is the meltdown that ensues when we leave. :)

We had a good Father's Day weekend. We mostly hung around the house except for pool time. We ate most of our meals here, which is actually kind of unsual for us. (We typically go out on the weekends.) I'm also hoping that eating at home more will help in my effort to lose a few pounds, ahem.

Anyway....

Busy, Yet Uneventful

This week has been a weird week of sorts. I feel like it has been pretty busy, but at the same time, I don't have much to report. Here are a few tidbits:

Amelia went an extra day to daycare this week. She typically goes Tuesdays and Thursdays, but she went Monday this week as well because we got a call Sunday night that someone wanted to look at our house Monday afternoon. (Our house has been for sale for a while...don't know if I mentioned that on the blog or not. We're not leaving the area; we're just running out of room!) Our house wasn't in "house showing" condition, so I took Amelia to daycare so I could do some heavy-duty de-cluttering. I'll fast-forward to the end of the story and let you know that the couple decided our house was too small. Bummer, but not surprising.

I've also been continuing with the sleep training. If you are a Facebook friend, you already know how it's been going, but if you're not...

--the first night took an hour and a half
--the second night took 20 minutes
--the third night took 5 minutes
--the fourth night took...no time

I'm pretty shocked. Honestly, I was mentally prepared for this to be a month-long battle. The real test came last night when Darryl was left at home with her while I had dinner with a friend of mine. (I had put her to bed every night so far.) She only cried a few minutes, Darryl said, and then went to sleep. I don't know that we've reached the finish line yet, but I'm at least convinced she has the ability to do it. Naps haven't gone as well, but we're getting there.

And between all of that, I was able to fit in a little scrapbooking (I know I was going to take a week off, but oh well), a lunch date with Darryl, a little shopping, ice cream with Amelia at Bruster's, and a little more cleaning.

So there you have it...not exactly a super-exciting week, but a full one nonetheless.

The Weekend...and Turning a Corner

This past weekend my friend Casi came to visit. We pretty much shopped, scrapbooked, ate, shopped, scrapbooked, and ate. And ate. And scrapbooked.

It really was a fun weekend. Amelia hung out with us some of the time and was (fortunately) well behaved, but I really appreciate Darryl for keeping her some of the time so I could have some "girl time."

And while I have enjoyed scrapbooking, I think I'm taking a week-long hiatus from it. I really need to get some stuff done at the house.

Tonight was a big night in the area of parenting...we made Amelia get herself to sleep. I've been rocking Amelia every night, and while I have enjoyed that time with her, it was getting to where it was taking an hour or so a night to get her to sleep. So after reading a book on this (a book that I actually agreed with, but can't remember the title of at the moment) and getting a big "you can do it" from the nurse practitioner we see at the pediatrician's office (I love her...if you've ever watched Everybody Loves Raymond, she reminds me of Robert's wife, Amy), I actually made it to "the end" tonight--it took her an hour and a half to get to sleep. My book (and the NP) told me to stick my head in every 15 minutes and speak to her in a soothing voice, but that seemed to make her madder, so I pretty much left her alone. She was actually calm a good bit of the time with a few screaming outbursts here and there. So, whew. I hope we get this knocked out by the end of the week.

I'll keep you posted.

24+ Hours

The last 24-plus hours have been slightly rough.

Yesterday
First, you need some background info for this to make sense. I'm going to 'fess up and admit that twice a month, a lady comes to my house and cleans it. Yes, I know that money could go somewhere else. Yes, I know I'm capable of cleaning a house. But about a month before Amelia was born, I made a hormonally-charged, tearful plea to Darryl that I really wanted someone to come in every other week because, as a working mom, I didn't want to spend my weekends mopping floors but would rather spend them with my daughter. And because no one should ever say no to a crying pregnant woman, Darryl agreed, and thus we hired this woman to clean our house twice a month.

Okay, so yesterday was house cleaning day. I never like to be home on those days because I feel awkward, so I took Amelia to daycare and then went to the scrapbooking studio and scrapped my heart out.

I picked up Amelia, and because Darryl was having dinner with one of his best friends who happened to be in town for a business trip, I grabbed Chick-fil-a drive thru and headed home.

When I went to unlock the door, I realized I had the wrong set of keys and that the cleaning lady had uncharacteristically locked the deadbolt. (I later realized that her daughter had actually cleaned our house that day, thus the deadbolt issue.) I called Darryl to see where he was, and of course he was dining about 10 exits down the highway. Awesome.

So I got back in the car to head that way. Amelia, who was not thrilled to be back in the car, began Meltdown #1.

The one fortunate thing in this whole debacle is that I made the super-mom choice of waffle fries for her CFA kids' meal (I usually try to force the whole fruit cup thing), and I was able to pass chicken nuggets and fries to her in the back seat. She was a little happier after a full belly.

I made it to where Darryl was and he gave me the key. Amelia realized that Daddy was not going to be joining us, and this began Meltdown #2.

People, there's nothing like a meltdown in rush hour traffic. There just isn't.

Anyway, we finally reached home. And Amelia took her sweet time falling asleep at bedtime.

Exhuasted, I decided to go to bed early, and I was OUT in probably five minutes. I was so out that I wasn't thinking when I locked the deadbolt.

I was awakened at midnight by a loud knocking on the window beside our bed. It is a miracle I didn't have a heart attack. It was Darryl, who had tried knocking on the door. I had locked him out because, you know, I had his key.

Today
Today I took Amelia to her 18-month appointment since she's going to be 19 months in two days. Anyway...

Darryl usually goes to these "milestone checkups" with me, but I had heard there was only one shot involved in this one (but there were two!), so I told Darryl he could bypass this one.

What a mistake.

I was hoping that by having a morning appointment, we wouldn't have to wait, but I was wrong. When we finally got in, I had to answer a million and one questions about Amelia's development: Does she throw a ball? Does she mimic sounds? Does she show affection? Does she take off her clothes? And on and on and on...

My favorite part is always the measurements. Apparently Amelia is tall. Really tall. Over 99th percentile for height. I'm sure I sound like one of "those" parents when I say I hope the girl can dribble a basketball. :)

All was going well until I was told that they would do a vision screening. I took Amelia to the special room for vision screening, and I'm told by the old lady that I have to keep Amelia perfectly still. She then proceeded to stick several sensors on her head and put an eyepatch over one eye. If you have ever met Amelia, you might understand how difficult of a task it was to try to keep her still, especially with all that paraphernalia on her head. Amelia was surprisingly good to have one eye tested, but by the time the woman did the other eye, Amelia was mad. And every time she moved too much, the test would cancel out.

The woman finally gave up and said she would try again at Amelia's 2-year checkup. (And Darryl will be going with me to that one.)

And when I say Amelia was mad, I mean she was MAD. The woman gave Amelia a Barbie sticker and Amelia threw it on the floor. When we got back to the regular examining room, Amelia was in full meltdown mode. And we hadn't even had the shots yet. I'll just let you imagine how those went over. :)

Amelia has been in a bit of a funk since the vision test. She didn't nap well, and has just been sort of grumpy all day. It's been fun. Really fun.

And Tomorrow???
Um, let's hope for a better day.

Pool Time and Scrapbooking

We had a really nice, relaxing weekend. We spent a lot of time at the pool, which Amelia absolutely loved. Here are a couple of pics:



I also finished my London scrapbook today, and I'm really happy with how it turned out.

And really, that's all I have to report. But at least you got some cute pics, right?

The best laid plans...

Today was another daycare day for Amelia. Even better, it was supposed to be "water day," and Amelia LOVES water. So here is Amelia all dressed for water day this morning:


I know the picture is out of focus, but if you saw all my other attempts to get her to be still--especially while trying to prevent her from having a meltdown because I wouldn't let her have my camera--you would understand why this is the best shot I have. (Is there anything cuter than a little girl in a bathing suit? I think not.)

Anyway, we were optimistic that the weather man was wrong about the rain, but this was one time he was actually right. It started raining about halfway to daycare, and Amelia never had her water day. Bummer.

I was also supposed to spend the day scrapbooking with my friend Blayne, but she had a last-minute house emergency and was able to scrapbook with me for just a couple of hours. Oh, well. I ran a few errands and scrapbooked a little. Still a good day.

And in case you are wondering, I do plan to do other things this summer besides scrapbook. I just haven't been able to do it in several months, so I'm just kind of crazy with it now. I'm almost finished with my London book, though. :)

Summer Catch-up

I know I kept you in suspense with Post-Planning Days 2 and 3, didn't I?? I'm sure you've been chompin' at the bit in anticipation.

Those last two days of post-planning included meetings, counting textbooks, and, for me, some major cleaning and organizing. Oh, and we had a somewhat awkward end-of-the-year luncheon at which people whose contracts hadn't been renewed who were not returning next year were given parting gifts. (Is it just me, or is that odd?) The program/luncheon finally ended with a nice farewell to a retiring English teacher, so at least it ended on a not-awkward note.

So far, the summer has been wonderful. Amelia and I had a great day Friday, and it involved a somewhat hilarious adventure at the playground, where I ended up chasing Amelia down a really big tunnel slide. She thought it was hysterically funny, and I just prayed I wouldn't get stuck or flash anyone.

My mom came up for the weekend because for Christmas, I gave her tickets to see the musical Jersey Boys at the Fox. While the actual gift was a long time coming, the musical was great, and my mom loved it. If you don't know...the musical is basically the story behind Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons. When I was in high school, my mom took me to see the real Frankie Valli and Four Seasons, so I figured she would love the musical. And as I already said, she definitely did. I really enjoyed it, too. I'm thinking I might even put it in my Top 5.

Yesterday my mom went back home after lunch, and Amelia and I took a long nap and ran some errands.

Today I had a "me day." I'm taking Amelia to her daycare two days a week this summer. Yes, it does give me some time to get things done, but Amelia is also at the age where she really seems to enjoy being in the company of her daycare friends. She practically ran in and hugged her teacher when I dropped her off today, and then her friend Addison walked up and they jabbered at each other. Too cute.

Anyway, I ended up going to a scrapbooking studio and scrapbooked pretty much all. day. long. I have finished up the photos with Amelia's "first year book," and I even got a little bit done on my London book.

Speaking of London, I finally transferred some pics from Darryl's computer to mine. At some point this week, I'll try to post some.